Monday, January 2, 2017

9 YEARS OF MARRIAGE (22/12/2016)
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If you ask me if I am Happily Married,
I will happily say YES!
Not because I am happy all the time.

If you ask me if I have a Perfect Marriage,
I will perfectly say YES!
Not because its perfect all the time.

I have learnt something in the 9 years:
LOVE IS A MIRACLE.

It creates a perfect relationship out of imperfect people.
Perfection therefore, is not a matter of ingredients.

It is not the absence of faults, challenges and shortcomings.
It is the presence of LOVE.

LOVE itself is not one thing.
But many things in One.

In fact, all things in One.
LOVE is Everything.

Yet, its IMPOSSIBLE to get Everything Right;
So LOVE is a MIRACLE.

Enabling us to sincerely say to each other these "un-human like" phrases:
- I am sorry.
- I forgive you.
- It is okay.
- I understand you.
- I know you are trying.
- Things will get better.
- We can fix this.
- Hold my hand.
- How do you want me to help you.
- Let's talk about it.
- I will walk with you.
- You look tired, go and rest - I will put the kids to bed.
- Let's pray about it.
- Please stop judging yourself, I am not judging you.
- I am happy for you.
- I am proud of you.
- I love you UNCONDITIONALLY.
- GO & PLAY BASKETBALL

Give & never stop giving, of yourself.
Try & never stop trying, your best.
Pray & never stop praying, for your marriage.

My name is Grant.
And today is our 9th Wedding Anniversary.
I am living the Miracle,
I AM IN LOVE.

Tino Kudzaishe.

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